Books that promotes higher self-esteem for kids

Over the summer holidays, I love using these books with my children because they offer valuable lessons in self-acceptance, confidence, and resilience. These stories feature relatable characters and situations that help my kids understand and embrace their uniqueness and strengths.

Check it out below and let us know which book is your favorite!

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Books for Ages 3-6

1. Tomorrow I’ll Be Brave by Jessica Hische
   • The book encourages young readers to embrace new challenges, do their best, and be brave, with the understanding that it’s okay if they don’t achieve everything they set out to do in a single day. The central message is one of resilience and self-compassion, reminding kids that tomorrow is another opportunity to try again.
2. The Smallest Girl in the Smallest Grade by Justin Roberts
   •  This is a heartwarming picture book that tells the story of Sally McCabe, a very small girl who is often overlooked by her classmates. Despite her small stature, Sally is highly observant and notices everything happening around her, including the bullying on the playground and in the classroom. One day, she decides to speak up against the unkindness she sees, demonstrating that even the smallest voice can make a significant impact.
3. I Like Me by Nancy Carlson
   • Peppy pig is a character who is full of good feelings about herself. This simple story helps young children understand the importance of feeling proud of who they are.
4. The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
   • Explore Jacqueline Woodson’s poignant words and Rafael López’s vibrant illustrations, celebrating the courage to embrace uniqueness. This book shows children that although we may all be different, we are similar too.
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5. Raise Your Hand by Alice Paul Tapper

• Join Alice Tapper, an 11-year-old Girl Scout, on a journey of empowerment! This picture book showcases her courage to challenge gender norms and inspires confidence in girls everywhere. With delightful illustrations, Alice’s story encourages kids to raise their hands and use their voices.

6. Giraffes Can’t Dance by Giles Andreae
   • Gerald the giraffe wants to dance but feels clumsy. With a little encouragement, he learns that anyone can dance if they find their own music. This book teaches kids about self-confidence and embracing their uniqueness.
7. Elmer by David McKee
   • Elmer the patchwork elephant is different from the other elephants. His story of celebrating individuality and self-acceptance is perfect for young children.
8. The Wonderful Things You Will Be by Emily Winfield Martin
   • This story celebrates the dreams, acceptance, and love that parents have for their children. It’s a heartfelt reminder to kids that they are wonderful just the way they are.
9. Beautiful Oops! by Barney Saltzberg
   • A creative book that teaches kids how mistakes can be turned into something beautiful, encouraging them to see the positive side of errors and to be confident in their creativity.

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Books for Ages 7-13

10. Being Me: A Kid’s Guide to Boosting Confidence and Self Esteem by Wendy L. Moss, PhD
    • “Being Me” equips children with tools to discover their strengths, excel in school, and build self-assurance in all aspects of life. Filled with relatable examples, inspiring stories, and practical advice, this guide empowers kids to embrace happiness, security, and confidence within themselves and with others.
11. Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly Hunt
    • “Fish in a Tree“ tells a captivating story of overcoming self-doubt and embracing individuality. As Ally navigates dyslexia, she learns to ask for help and discovers her true potential. This emotionally charged novel reminds children that labels don’t define them and that self-acceptance leads to endless possibilities.
12. Rebel Girls: Growing Up Powerful by Nona Willis Aronowitz
    • “Growing Up Powerful” helps girls grow into their most confident selves. Packed with expert advice, relatable Q&As, and engaging quizzes, this book fosters unshakable confidence in tween and teen girls.
13. Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli
    • “Stargirl” is a captivating tale of individuality and the journey to self-acceptance. Through Stargirl’s story, readers learn the importance of embracing their uniqueness, even in adversity. This emotional narrative inspires readers to celebrate their true selves and find the courage to stand out in a world that urges conformity.
14. Brave by Svetlana Chmakova
    • In this graphic novel, Jenson dreams of being a hero, but his dreams collide with middle school realities. Jenson’s journey helps readers navigate challenges, find their inner bravery, and tackle real-life obstacles with confidence. Join Jenson as he discovers his unique path to courage.
15. Wonder by R.J. Palacio
    • Auggie Pullman, a boy with a facial difference, enters mainstream school for the first time. His story of resilience, friendship, and acceptance teaches readers about kindness and the power of being oneself.
16. Smile by Raina Telgemeier
    • This graphic novel chronicles Raina’s experiences with braces, dental drama, and middle school struggles, offering a heartfelt look at self-acceptance and the journey to finding one’s smile.
17. The Confidence Code for Girls by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman
    • This empowering guide provides practical advice and real-life stories to help girls build confidence and develop a growth mindset, encouraging them to embrace their potential.
18. You Are Awesome by Matthew Syed
    • Aimed at helping kids develop resilience and a positive mindset, this book is filled with inspirational stories, practical tips, and activities to boost confidence and help children overcome challenges.

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